TWIN FLAME LOVE part 3

TWIN FLAME LOVE PART 3-HEALING TWIN FLAMES

Parts one and two of my Twin Flame Healing Journey blog can be found here and here.

Twin flames are broken souls who need each other to show and mirror what needs to be brought up and healed, and after reading a lot of twin flame blogs, you might be forgiven for thinking a typical twin flame relationship is romantic and sublime. The good news is that it can be, but only if the healing work is put in by both parties.

Some writers believe that if you heal your own issues, your twin flame will miraculously heal on his or her own, but from my experience, that is just not true.

Although my friend Rachel was the first to approach me for healing, her twin flame Stuart was actually the one most in need of healing. He was a typical ‘runner’ to Rachel’s ‘chaser’, and just as their relationship was blooming, he decided he needed space.

He agreed initially to a few sessions of distance healing ‘to see how thing went’, but I don’t think he was prepared for the sheer visceral turmoil himself and Rachel would have to work through to heal lifetimes of wounds, karma and trauma related to their connection.

During a distance healing, I first scan the energy body for blockages. Emotional blockages are usually found in the chakras, so I scan these first.

Stuart’s heart chakra was full of grief, and he told me he had carried that since his parents separated when he was young. His mother lived with her new husband and young son, and his father lived alone.

After the grief was cleared and healed, I noticed that there were thick ‘walls’ surrounding his heart chakra- there was obviously some vulnerability he wanted to protect. With his permission, I broke the walls down and cleared the debris, and found feelings of anger towards his mother. He insisted his relationship with mum was good, so I removed the anger and checked again.

Although anger is often understandable in certain situations, it is a ‘masking emotion’, and hidden underneath the surface is usually the true feeling. When I delved deeper, I was shocked to find pure hate. Stuart also appeared shocked, and he reiterated how well he got on with his mother.

At the next distance session, I found the walls in Stuart’s heart had all been put back up again. There was definitely something not right. I cleared away the walls again, and as my hand hovered over the chakra, I got very clear impressions of a past life. Stuart was a young girl of sixteen in this life, and it was right at the start of World War 2. She was being courted by a young boy in her class at school (who was Rachel), and the pair were very much in love.

Stuart and his mum lived with his grandparents. Mum worked in a factory, and Dad was away fighting in the War. The grandfather was Stuart’s mum in his current life, and had been abusing Stuart sexually since they had moved in recently. One night, he raped her and disgusted at herself, the girl had taken her own life. She felt guilt and shame for what had happened, and was angry that her relationship with her twin flame had been snuffed out before it had a chance to bloom.

The subconscious hate in his heart for his mum came from the Grandfather’s behaviour in his previous life. We had a chat about forgiveness, and Stuart forgave the Grandfather, his mum and himself for what had happened. That allowed me to clear and heal the karmic imprint and release all the negative emotions he was holding on to. In his sacral chakra, I found guilt and shame going back to that lifetime which was also cleared and healed.

One of the discoveries that I have made during healings is that subconscious emotions and issues are always held in the chakras at the back of the body, more obvious ones pop up at the front of the body.

When I checked his head and neck, I felt the energetic ’rope’ the girl had hanged herself with, and Stuart mentioned that he sometimes felt tightness and discomfort at the front of his throat and up behind his ears. I removed this and healed the area with white light before jumping onto the old timeline and restoring things to the way they should be.

A big part of any healing is being able to talk things through with someone and come to an understanding of things in your own mind. In my experience, people who can and do talk about issues and emotions that are coming up are able to move more quickly and easily through the healing process.

At our next session, Stuart’s heart was clear, and his Higher Self indicated that the time was right to open and activate his heart chakra. I asked his Higher Self to facilitate this, and felt the shift as his heart opened and swelled with unconditional love.

Although the past life in WW2 appears to have been ‘done and dusted’, what I have found is that other issues will pop up from that lifetime to be healed further down the line, and Rachel may have corresponding blockages that need healing also.

It is fascinating to see more dots coming up that are all part of the bigger picture of this twin flame connection.

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